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Monday Motivational Memo: Building Willpower

May 2, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Willpower is NOT the ability to say “NO.”

It’s the ability to say “Not right now.”

One of the biggest reasons we give up is we feel that it takes too much energy to resist whatever temptation we face. The thought of “going without” for long periods of time is daunting, overwhelming – and quite frankly – depressing.

The solution is to realize that willpower does not have to mean “forever,” it can simply mean “for the next few minutes.”

If you’re tempted to give up on your goals because you don’t feel you have the strength to stick with your plan, simply make a commitment that you’ll stick with it for the next ten minutes. That’s all. Most of the time, you’ll find the urge to give up passes in a few moments and before you know it, you’re back on track.

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Filed Under: goals, Inspiration, Member Benefits, Motivation, Motivational Monday, Overcoming Obstacles, planning, Procrastination, Success Tagged With: coaching service, lifestyle change, persistence, resolutions, resolutions that stick, stress, temptation, urge

Twitter Weekly Updates for 2011-04-24

April 24, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

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Filed Under: Weekly Twitter Feeds Tagged With: stress, weekly updates

Building Support

April 18, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

If you can’t have faith, have hope.

If you don’t have hope, have patience.

If you don’t have patience, have good friends.

Reach out. We are social beings, which explains why we build communities and relationships. It’s who we are at our core. Talk to someone. Remember, even powerful people have needs. Besides, when you share, you almost immediately feel better.

Call a friend. Send an email. Someone is there to help. You just need to ask.

Note: Every Monday, a new motivational memo is posted. Subscribers to ThisTimeIMeanIt.com’s coaching service get this – and many more benefits – sent to them directly. If you’d like to know more, follow this link.

Filed Under: Asking for help, Group Support, Inspiration, Member Benefits, Motivation, Motivational Monday, Overcoming Obstacles Tagged With: change, coaching service, faith, good friends, lifestyle change, patience, relationships, social beings, stress

Stress Overload – 5 Steps to Relieve Overwhelming Stress

April 2, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

By Jan Verhoeff

(Editors Note: This is from ezinearticles.com; full information is at the end of the article.)

Have you ever felt that incredible weight of the world on your shoulders, spinning out of hand? I’m here to show you ways to relieve that overwhelming feeling of stress that just sends you reeling into the pit of doom.

1. Step back and find the humor.

Today I was visiting with a friend, after several months of missing her. I mentioned that my son was out of control these days, and we talked about how we’d both threatened our sons with not making their next birthday if they didn’t settle down. Neither of us would do anything to hurt our sons, and they know that. But suddenly we both felt the humor in our empty threats. Their behavior seemed less extreme and we knew we’d be able to get through the next moment because we were laughing at the last moments.

2. Go ahead and cry your heart out.

Tears are cleansing. Allow your tears to wipe clean the heavy burdens you’ve carried. Accept that part of life as what it is and move past the stressor to a new step. Sometimes we forget the blessing of rain upon dry land. When the storms come, the land may be barren, but as sure as the raindrops fall, there’s life beneath the surface. [Read more…]

Filed Under: Asking for help, Guest Author, mental health, Motivation, Power of Attitude, Productivity Tagged With: burdens, ezinearticles.com, living in the moment, stress, stressor, stressors

Handling Conflict Better

March 28, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

In conflict, begin each sentence with “I feel…” rather than “You did…”

Don’t interrupt during the reply.

Everything seems crazy these days.

That’s causing us to feel overwhelmed, overloaded, and stressed out; the perfect combination to get us into disagreements with the people we care about and those with whom we work.

Should you find yourself in that most unhappy state, it’s important to remember that the main thing is to get resolution, not to “one up” the other. (After all, how well do you react when someone tries to “one up” you?”)

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Filed Under: Communicating, Conflict Management, Current Events, Member Benefits, Motivational Monday, Scott's Rules Tagged With: conflict, disagreements, fair fighting, reply, stress, stressful times, unhappy state

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