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Handling Conflict Better

March 28, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

In conflict, begin each sentence with “I feel…” rather than “You did…”

Don’t interrupt during the reply.

Everything seems crazy these days.

That’s causing us to feel overwhelmed, overloaded, and stressed out; the perfect combination to get us into disagreements with the people we care about and those with whom we work.

Should you find yourself in that most unhappy state, it’s important to remember that the main thing is to get resolution, not to “one up” the other. (After all, how well do you react when someone tries to “one up” you?”)

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Filed Under: Communicating, Conflict Management, Current Events, Member Benefits, Motivational Monday, Scott's Rules Tagged With: conflict, disagreements, fair fighting, reply, stress, stressful times, unhappy state

TED Video: Using Art to Turn the World Inside Out

March 8, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Who says small changes can’t make a big difference?

This is an amazing concept. JR, a French street artist, uses his camera to show the world its true face – in the most literal sense. He makes his audacious TED Prize wish: to use art to turn the world inside out. A funny, moving talk about art and who we are.

Note: This video takes a very long time to load. Also, once it does, there will be a spinning circle that will stay on the screen for awhile. It will eventually vanish. It’s also easier to watch it if you blow it up to full size. All that said, it’s definitely worth the effort to watch it.

Learn more at insideoutproject.net.

Filed Under: Change, Communicating, Current Events, Inspiration, Motivation, Video Tagged With: art, art as change, inside out project, insideoutproject.net, jr, street artist, ted, ted videos

Video: Using Words to Obscure Communication – The Front Fell Off

February 18, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus

Here’s an hilarious video from Australia illustrating how some people can say a whole lot – and not end up saying a thing. The team is Clarke & Dawe. (The quality is not as good as I’d like because I believe the video is from the 90s. However, it’s definitely worth your time.)

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Filed Under: Communicating, Current Events, Excuses, humor, Intentions, Video Tagged With: clark and dawe, front fell off, oil tanker, shipping

Beauty & Love Invisible in Plain Sight

February 14, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus

How often do we not even notice something wonderful that’s right in front of us? My wonderful wife hung this at the entrance to the living room. I staggered out of bed, into the living room; didn’t notice it. Walked out of the living room; oblivious. Got coffee and wandered back into the living room; still unobservant.

She calls out, “Happy Valentines Day” from upstairs, assuming I saw it of course.

I call back, “You too honey.”

She says, “What did you think?”

“About what?” I call back.

She says, “You didn’t even see it?”

“See what?”

How many other things of beauty and love do we miss each day? I will keep my eyes open more today.

Filed Under: Communicating, family, Happiness, humor, Personal, Relationships Tagged With: happy valentines day, husband, mary ann testagrossa, romance, valentines day, wife

“We Need to Tone it Down on Both Sides”

January 11, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus

There was a tragedy in Tucson last week which involved the shooting deaths of six innocent people and the wounding of more than a dozen, including the congress woman, Gabrielle Giffords, who represents that area. I’m sure you’re aware of it; you’d have to live in a hole to not to be.

At this writing, this horrific event does not seem motivated as much by politics (e.g. the Oklahoma Bombing) as it is by the fact that the shooter was mentally unstable, such as those at Columbine. (I’m sure this is small comfort to the families of the victims.) The fact that I can list examples (and I could provide more) of various shootings “by name” – and that you can understand the references – is a sad, discerning comment about the level of violence in which we find ourselves. As for the cause of the event, finger-pointing began per schedule. Blame will be assessed, and as with a New Year’s resolution, promises  will be made. For a brief moment, our awareness will be heightened and actions might be be taken. Unfortunately, also like those resolutions, these commitments will be abandoned in short order.

Positive Result?

One positive outcome arising from this tragedy (if “positive” can be the label applied to anything that comes of it) is the heightened scrutiny on the tone of the political discourse during this fractious era. Only time will tell if it was a partial cause in the shooter’s break with humanity; but it cannot be a bad thing to examine. [Read more…]

Filed Under: Change, Communicating, Conflict Management, Group Support, mental health, News, Newspaper Column, Self Talk Tagged With: bygone days, columbine, far left, far right, gabrielle giffords, horrific event, mass shooting, media, new year, oklahoma bombing, political discourse, politicians, promises, pundits, resolutions, tragedy, vehement disagreement, violence

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