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Self-Talk and Self-Care After Mistakes

November 15, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Anti-Perfectionism Affirmation

Be Kind to Yourself

We tend to be very quick to blame ourselves and very slow to accept compliments. A compliment denied is punishment self inflicted. When we feel bad, we engage in comforting behaviors; which many times are the very behaviors we are trying to change. Look for ways to complement yourself for what you do rather than beat yourself up for what you did not do. (That is not to say deny the problem, just be as kind to yourself about your slip-ups as you would be to a child.)

I will forgive myself for the errors I made today. I will correct them, but do so in a state of grace for all concerned, including myself.

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Filed Under: Affirmation, Inspiration, mental health, Overcoming Perfectionsim Tagged With: affirmation, affirmations, attitude, compliment, compliments, happiness, perfectionism, self esteem, self-talk, slip ups, state of grace

Moving Forward When the Road Seems so Long

November 13, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Anti-Perfectionism Affirmation

Looking Backwards to Move Forward

We accomplish more when we compare ourselves to our starting point, rather than to how far we must still travel. When we look down a road without an “end,” we feel defeated and tend to give up, feeling it’s futile to continue. Rather, look at how far you’ve traveled and the sense of accomplishment will help propel you forward yet again.

Today, I will acknowledge the changes I am making, no matter how small.

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Filed Under: Affirmation, Change, Inspiration, Overcoming Perfectionsim Tagged With: accomplishment, affirmation, affirmations, change, happiness, inspiration, perfectionism, quality of life, resolutions, thankfulness

Getting Past Overwhelmed and Moving Forward

November 11, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Anti-Perfectionism Affirmation

Small Steps

When I am overwhelmed, I realize it’s because I’m trying to tackle too large of a project. I am intimidated by how much I have to do and my natural reaction is to shut down, which makes the problem worse. Today, I will find one small thing I can do on a project I’ve been delaying. I will not commit to any more than one step. Then, I will tackle it with all the skills and talents I have, realizing it’s better to move forward slowly than not at all.

No task is too large, when broken down into small steps.

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Filed Under: Affirmation, Inspiration, Overcoming Obstacles, Overcoming Perfectionsim Tagged With: affirmation, affirmations, perfectionism, small steps

Accepting Mistakes Will Happen

November 10, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Anti-Perfectionism Affirmation

Mistakes Happen

Today, I will accept the fact that the only way for mistakes to be avoided is to remain stagnant. Whereby that will prevent me from making errors, it will also prevent me from the possibility of enjoying my life, as well as growing. I will therefore move forward, fully aware of the fact that the unexpected can – and most likely will – happen, but that I can handle them when they do.

I am a fully functional being with the ability to handle set-backs and errors. Knowing that makes me stronger and happier.

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Filed Under: Affirmation, Inspiration, Overcoming Perfectionsim Tagged With: affirmation, happiness, perfectionism, productivity

Overcoming Perfectionism

September 26, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus

Progress, not Perfection.

It’s actually a very simple formula to move forward when stuck.

Step one: Determine where you’re headed.
Step two: Take one step in that direction.
Step three: Adjust for barriers (emotional & physical)
Step four: Repeat as necessary.

The biggest problem we face is NOT that we cannot do it, but that we make the goal unrealistic.

Remember “Think 1st.”

Pick 1 thing (not several), make it Small enough that there’s no objection in your mind to doing it, make sure you do it Today.

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Filed Under: Member Benefits, Motivational Monday, Overcoming Obstacles, Overcoming Perfectionsim, Think 1st Tagged With: coaching service, inspiration, overcoming perfectionism, priorities, subscribers, Think 1st

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