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Never Too Late to Start Again

February 27, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Self-Acceptance Affirmation

Starting “Again”

It’s never too late – nor too early – to begin again.

Progress, by its very definition, is not a linear process. We move forward, we fall down, we get back up again. Each time we slip up, it means we’ve tried something new. We need to congratulate ourselves for that.

Therefore, the more progress we make, the more times we will fall down. What matters is how long it takes us to get back up again.

Today, I will re-commit myself to something I want that I had previously stopped pursuing. I will take one small step. I will congratulate myself for my persistence. I am proud of the fact that I keep going.

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Filed Under: Affirmation, mental health, Overcoming Obstacles, Overcoming Perfectionsim, Success Tagged With: affirmation, affirmations, happiness, perfectionism, persistence

Recognize Stress Before it Kills You!

February 23, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

stress attitudeby Elaine Dumler

Part 1 of 3. (Part 2 can be found here.)

Everyone suffers from stress at different times throughout their day.

We all know that “good” stress can peak your adrenaline and actually help increase your performance and abilities in getting a job done. This kind of stress is critical on the battlefield. It’s when stress begins to control us, instead of us being in control of it, that it turns into “bad” stress. This decreases our ability to react and respond properly in situations and can be damaging to ourselves and others. Stress, much like high blood pressure, can be a “silent killer.” In a three-part series on Stress, we’ll look at how to recognize stress, what you can do to reduce stress, and how to create a stress management plan.

What is stress?

Stress is the response your body makes to outside anxieties and stimuli that may seem out of your control. Most stress is normal and necessary to our overall physical and mental health. “Good” stress allows us to become protectors of those around us in dangerous situations and triggers a lifesaving “flight or fight” response. Stress levels depend on the degree, intensity and frequency of demands put on us. When does stress cross the line and become harmful? When it has a negative and prolonged affect on your moods, physical health, aggression and the people around you.

Become aware of stress symptoms.

Always be aware of your own body and when it’s acting in a way that’s not normal. Stress shows up in many different ways and can often be overlooked or interpreted as something different. ALL of these symptoms don’t have to be present, just a few at a time.

Look for:

  • Symptoms that resemble a heart attack – chest pain and shortness of breath
  • Prolonged increased blood pressure
  • Outbursts of anger
  • Feelings of “helplessness” and depression
  • Withdrawing from normal activities and people
  • Not responding to true danger around you – misinterpreting the situation along with confusion
  • Dizzy spells, weak muscles and trembling, disorientation
  • “Butterflies” in your stomach
  • Frustrated thinking in problem solving and decision making
  • Headache, sweating and “clamminess.”

Are you more susceptible to stress?

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Filed Under: Asking for help, Conflict Management, Guest Author, Happiness, Health, mental health Tagged With: anxieties, attitude, chest pain and shortness of breath, dangerous situations, dumler, getting a job, guest author, heart attack, helplessness, high blood pressure, moods, physical health, shortness of breath, silent killer, stress, stress levels, stress management plan, stress symptoms

Where are my Crayons?

February 15, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

priorities happiness family time management attitude

I was “row monitor” in second grade; sitting in the last seat making sure the students in my row behaved. On this day, all was quiet; no one messed with the law when Scott was around. My enforcement duties complete, I was able to turn my attention to the current “quiet time,” period that daily session where we did whatever we wanted, just so it was without sound. Priority one was schoolwork; so I pulled out my assignment list; decorated with pencil-drawn army men and a poorly drawn reproduction of Mighty Mouse. Nothing was pending so I re-filed it, still seeking something to occupy my time.

When our assignments were up to speed, we were allowed to retrieve our coloring books and engage our more artistic personae. Eagerly, I flipped pages, seeking the perfect image on which I could express by imaginative abilities. Alas, I had used all 64 colors on every image; every page had been filled; nothing remained

Sadly, I folded my hands on my desk, looked up at the ticking clock and waited. I had nothing to do, probably the last time in my life that has ever happened.

Fast-forward 50 years…

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Filed Under: family, Gratitude, Happiness, mental health, Newspaper Column, Relationships Tagged With: adult life, family, gratitude, happiness, priorities, quality of life, quiet time, time passing, top priorities

Audio: Where Are The Crayons Podcast

February 15, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

This is year 7, column #10.

The name of the column is called “Where are the Crayons?” and it’s all about taking time to slow down and pay attention to what’s really important. It’s 6:50

You can download the podcast by clicking on this link.

To read the column, follow this link.

Filed Under: Gratitude, Inspiration, mental health, Podcast Tagged With: family, happiness, Podcast, quality of life, relationships, taking time

Accepting Things for How They Are

February 9, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Self-Acceptance Affirmation

Accepting Situations as They Are

Life can be frustrating, there’s no two ways about it. When it is overwhelming and I feel like a hamster on a wheel, I am faced with only three choices:

  1. Quit the assignment, task, or job
  2. Change the assignment, task, or job to make it better for me
  3. Change my attitude to accept that I’ve made a choice to be here and I’m not willing (or able) to do anything else

 

Staying in a frustrating situation and ranting about it will not change it. It will also ruin my attitude, make me less productive, and possibly ruin my relationships (as well as possibly get me fired). Honor yourself for your willingness to persevere, take a deep breath, and be grateful for whatever you can.

My attitude is my own. Today I will choose to be accepting of my situation and be grateful for what I have.

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Filed Under: Affirmation, Gratitude, Happiness, mental health, Self Talk Tagged With: affirmation, affirmations, attitude, conflict, happiness, job, motivation, perfectionism, relationships, willingness

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