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The Road Will be Clear When You’re Ready for It

March 11, 2013 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

The road will be clear when you need it to be.

road - career path

As they say, “based on a true story…”

As I am developing the roll-out to the ThisTimeIMeanIt.com “Inner Oval” (it’s like a circle but less perfect), I keep getting overwhelmed with how much I have to do.

  1. Survey to find out what you wanted
  2. Figure out what I could do at an affordable fee
  3. Write copy
  4. Design materials
  5. Promote it
  6. Follow up
  7. Make sure everyone was satisfied
  8. PLUS – keep up the remainder of my projects and responsibilities!

I tell you there, were times I was ready to give up.

Then, I thought, what would I say to people who asked me what they needed to do – and the answer became crystal clear:

Don’t worry about how it will end up. Just focus on putting one step in front of the next. It will eventually get done.

And it did.

And it’s done! (Well, not quite yet, but almost, certainly close enough that I am confident it will be finished this week.)

Move forward – even if you don’t know the path.

It will become evident when it’s time.

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Filed Under: Motivational Monday, Overcoming Obstacles, Overcoming Perfectionsim, planning, Procrastination, Productivity Tagged With: road to success, small steps

Why Does it Matter?

March 4, 2013 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Why does what you want to do matter?

woman-being-chased-by-question-marks

This is not an idle question.

Too often, we don’t make the changes we say we want because in reality the results don’t matter enough.

Oh, sure, they’re important. Yes, we’ll appreciate them. However, since we only have so much time in a day, something has to go and that’s not an easy rearrangement.

  • If the new habit isn’t important to us on an emotional level (even if it is on a logical level), we will not move forward.
  • If there is no urgency, we will not move forward.
  • If it’s not being done for us, but rather to appease someone else or because we “should,” we will not move forward.

To bust through these barriers and get over the wall of stagnation:

  • Set a specific time-related deadline (make it realistic).
  • Write down – and review regularly – how you will feel when you do the work it will take, rather than how much work you feel you have to do.
  • Reward yourself for every small step you take. Don’t wait until the end – or you’ll never get there.

Yes, it takes work, but if you focus on the benefits of that effort – instead of the effort – you will be successful.

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Filed Under: Motivational Monday, Overcoming Obstacles, planning, Procrastination, Productivity Tagged With: achieving your goals, habit, habit change, priorities, stagnation, top priorities

How to Motivate Yourself to Do “Something”

July 27, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

by guest author Alesha Wilson

How many times have you promised yourself that you will do something but ended up postponing it and doing something less productive? How many times have you promised to go to the gym to lose some weight but have backed out of the plan when the day arrived? Having cold feet is normal, but sometimes you have to brave the waters and do what has to be done–in this case, exercising to avoid being obese is a priority.

The statistics are overwhelming.

Take a look around you and you will see that many people are turning obese. But you do not have to be one of them. As long as you set your mind to that necessary change, you can save yourself. So how do you motivate yourself to change your ways? Apart from exercising, you can also use the steps listed below in other tasks that you might be having problems doing.

  1. Find a partner. It’s easy to be discouraged when you are going to the gym alone. Instead of being intimidated by the stares given to you by other people at the gym, ask your best friend to go with you. It will be just like your bonding sessions, except this time you are not dining out but burning unwanted fats. Anyone will do–your sister, your officemate, your neighbor–as long as you have a good relationship with that person. It’s even better if you make new friends at the gym so that you will look forward to seeing them every time you visit.
  2. Set a goal each week. You don’t have to lose all those unnecessary pounds in a few days. Go for a slow, but sure process. Set your mind to target at least five pounds a week. If you see that you are losing bigger than this, you can set your target a little higher. This way, you won’t be pressured to lose an unachievable number.
  3. Give yourself a reward. Make yourself work for something. What’s the use of following your exercise routine religiously if you don’t have something to look forward to, right? Tell yourself that you will buy that dress in size 0 when you achieve that weight. Thinking about the reward you will get after losing weight will surely make you want to work even harder.
  4. Keep tabs of your progress. If you are already losing weight, you need to know when to stop. By listing down the number of pounds you lost in one week, you will have an idea of when you can graduate from the gym. After that, your next move is to make sure that you still have enough exercise to avoid all the fat from returning.
  5. Prepare nutritious foods that taste great. To make sure that fats are lost, you should avoid eating meals that are rich in them. But you also do not have to punish yourself by eating foods that do not taste great at all. Rather, find easy to follow recipes of great-tasting meals with reduced calories. These are all over the internet these days, and they do taste great!

After reading the tips listed above, you hopefully are more motivated in getting “something” done. Just make sure that you enjoy the process and the outcome will be worth it.

About The Author: Alesha Wilson writes for various online publications including RockwellNutrition.com – leading online supplier of Whey Cool.

Filed Under: Diet, Exercise, goals, Group Support, Guest Author, Overcoming Obstacles, planning, Procrastination, Productivity, willpower Tagged With: achieving your goals, exercise routine, goal accomplishment, goal setting, good relationship, guest author, obesity, time management

Infographic: All About Procrastination

June 23, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

This is a great infographic about all things procrastination, provided by  www.thegappartnership.com.  There are some fascinating statistics in it. For example

  • people who procrastinate more tend to drink more
  • 46% of people say procrastination is having a negative effect on their lives

Check it out. (Um, don’t wait!) [Read more…]

Filed Under: Procrastination Tagged With: change, guest author, infographic, procrastination, statistics

Avoiding Stagnation

April 15, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Self-Acceptance Affirmation

The only way to avoid mistakes is to remain stagnant

Today, I will accept the fact that the only way for mistakes to be avoided is to remain stagnant.

Whereby that will prevent me from making errors, it will also prevent me from the possibility of enjoying my life, as well as growing. I will therefore move forward, fully aware of the fact that the unexpected can – and most likely will – happen, but that I can handle them when they do..

I am a fully functional being with the ability to handle set-backs and errors. Knowing that makes me stronger and happier.

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Filed Under: Affirmation, Inspiration, Overcoming Obstacles, Procrastination Tagged With: affirmation, affirmations, perfectionism, self acceptance, stagnation

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