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Are You Lazy, Bad, or Sloppy?

October 21, 2013 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

You’re not “bad,” or “lazy” because you don’t do what you’re supposed to do.

However, you might indeed be “sloppy.”

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Let’s face it; we’re overly critical.

If – for example – we’re losing weight and we have a day of which we’re not proud, we say we were “bad,” or we “cheated,” or we beat ourselves up for being “lazy.”

We’re not lazy. We’re certainly not bad.

The reality is we’re busy, overloaded, and trying to do a whole lot.

Don’t label yourself for slip-ups. Rather, describe the error.

For example, wouldn’t it feel better, instead of saying, “I was bad today;” to say “I was ‘sloppy’ or ‘careless'”? One implies that you’re a person of lesser moral value. The other shows you’re human and you made a mistake.

You can correct a mistake a heck of a lot quicker than you can change your morals.

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Filed Under: Failure, Happiness, mental health, Motivational Monday, Overcoming Obstacles, Power of Attitude, Self Talk, Success Tagged With: bad, lazy, road to success, self talk, sloppy, success

Success is not a Light Switch

October 14, 2013 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Success is not an “on” or “off” kind of thing.

man-fliping-light-switch

Dimmer SwitchIt ebbs and flows.

If one must use the light switch metaphor, it’s wiser to consider success to be a dimmer switch. Some days it’s at full brightness. Other times, it’s very dark.

But, it’s always on.

When you feel lost, look for ways to increase the brightness.

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Filed Under: Failure, Happiness, mental health, Motivational Monday, Overcoming Obstacles, Power of Attitude, Self Talk, Success Tagged With: begin again, frustration, new beginnings, restarting, road to success, starting over, success

5 Secrets Movers And Shakers Know, Revealed

January 25, 2013 by Featured Author Leave a Comment

Every office has that enviable employee who seems to make things happen under any circumstance. And let’s be honest: All of us wish we were that go-getting individual.

I used to really look up to one of my coworkers. He always had a smile on his face, and was always on the go – whether he was completing his own work, or lending a hand to peers who needed an extra set of eyes and ears -and never seemed stressed or overwhelmed.

One day, I asked him how he did it: Stayed on top, stayed positive and stayed successful, without breaking a sweat.

He smiled and shared the following secrets with me, which have since helped me on my own ascension to success:

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Filed Under: Guest Author, Health, Overcoming Obstacles, Power of Attitude Tagged With: change, fitness, healthier eating, healthy lifestyle, personal success, simple plan, simplicity, smile, success, success stories

What Success Feels Like

April 16, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

success joy happiness

THIS is what success feels like.

We think that “success” is always “out there,” in a far away place. Because of that thought process, we feel inadequate and frustrated.

The reality is we can draw the boundaries of success to be wherever we want them to be.

Maybe we aren’t at our correct weights, but we’re closer to them. Maybe our finances aren’t in the shape we want them, but they’re getting closer. Maybe our relationships aren’t where they could be, but they’re improving.

Isn’t positive movement the “real” definition of success?

Reward yourself. You’re doing better than you think.

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Filed Under: Inspiration, Member Benefits, Motivational Monday, Success Tagged With: attitude, coaching service, correct weights, goal accomplishment, happiness, inspiration, joy, motivation, relationships, resolutions, success

Unstuck! Bust Your Rut And Experience Immediate Results

April 6, 2012 by Featured Author Leave a Comment

IN A RUT?

Hit a dry spell? Down on your luck? It’s time you get unstuck!

We all find ourselves in the doldrums from time to time. Sales slump? Lacking motivation? Feeling under appreciated? Enough with the pity-party. Let’s bust your rut!

Remedial Rut-Busting

Whether you’re in an interview slump or a sales slump, here are five basics for busting your rut:

  1. Exercise! You’d be surprised how quickly your reality changes when you change your body chemistry. And that’s what exercise does. Be creative about they type of exercise you engage in. Sure laps on tracks and in pools qualify…as do the stairs in your office. But why not make it more fun? Create your own par course. Design your own mini-triathlon when you pick three favorite modes of exercise. Learn a new sport this year to exercise your body.  Exercise can include activities as diverse as soul line dancing, Brazilian caparei or Bikram yoga.
  2. Change your menu. Review your meal menus and make some healthy substitutions. Start with a breakfast that includes protein, fruits and yes — even vegetables. For lunch and dinner limit red meat, and avoid processed meat. Hydrate yourself throughout the day: aim for 6-8 glasses of water a day. Enjoy dinner before 7:00pm, to allow your body to digest and metabolize food fully before you hit the La-Z-Boy or go to bed. If you still crave alcohol, I recommend Loft Liqueur, an organic liqueur that’s healthy and mixes well with other beverages.
  3. Alter your routine. Change your rote patterns and processes. Alter your timetable, change your mealtimes, commute route, etc. You can even alter your seat at your meal table to change your perspective and experience. The variation will refresh you and add more vitality to your daily experience.
  4. Costume Change. Review and upgrade your wardrobe. Are you wearing the same ensembles, same shoes and same colors (hopefully not on the same days!)? Change your wardrobe, enjoy a new hair style or even consider a new fragrance.
  5. Seek out new perspectives. Conferring with others can give you new perspectives on old problems. Whether you seek the counsel of a loved one, member of the clergy, your mentor or a subject matter expert, discussions with others will offer you fresh ideas and help you bust your rut. Dig out of your rut through dialog. [Read more…]

Filed Under: Business Goals, Guest Author, Procrastination Tagged With: achieving your goals, doldrums, goals, guest author, overcoming obstacles, overcoming procrastination, success

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