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Letting Go of Old Baggage

August 15, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Despite its problems (and there are many), whenever I travel, I attempt to use our local airport.

It’s usually more expensive than driving to San Francisco and flying from there. However, I prefer to support our local economy, and upon totaling the added time and expenses of driving six hours, a higher price for long-term parking, as well as the possibility of a night in a hotel, it usually turns out to be equivalent. Yet, when the flight is $840 from here and $325 from SFO, do the math.

After returning to SFO from Houston (delayed of course), we took the bus to long-term parking. I strapped my suitcases together using the “clickable” belt attached to one, fastening my computer case on the handle of the case nearest me. We walked to the car, my short “suitcase train” in tow. At the vehicle, I unclicked the luggage, put my computer in the trunk and, by the time I turned around, one bag had vanished. Imagine going to the grocery store and putting a sack in your car, turning to get a second one — and there’s nothing there. It was that rapid.

Due to the speed of the incident, my initial thought was that I left a suitcase on the shuttle, or it fell off somewhere between the bus stop and the car. We returned to the bus but it was not there. We contacted security; nothing was reported. I felt like I had lost my mind and began wondering if I had imagined two suitcases. Should my traveling partner (and the bus driver) not confirm that they saw me with two cases; I would have doubted my sanity.

It gradually became apparent that someone walked by, snatched it and continued on his merry way.

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Filed Under: Change, Inspiration, mental health, Newspaper Column, Relationships Tagged With: acceptance, air travel, airport parking lot, change, crime, lessons, letting go, luggage, possessions, stealing, suitcase, theft, travel, travelers

Video: Teen Track Star Carries Fallen Opponent Across Finish Line

June 15, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Positive news to help you feel good.

From the Good News Network webpage:

“A junior at West Liberty Salem High School in Ohio brought home a state championship medal in the 1600-meter race, but is being praised for her performance in the event she lost.”

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Filed Under: Inspiration, Relationships, Video Tagged With: good news network, inspiration, positive news, salem high school

Affirmation: Being Loved for Who You Are

May 26, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Self-Acceptance Affirmation

People will still love you even if you mess up.

We are more critical of ourselves than almost anyone else. We can feel unloved for our errors and our shortcomings. We are also more forgiving of others when they make mistakes than we are of ourselves.

The people we love – and those who love us – know we are not perfect. Yet, they love us anyway, just as we do them.

We are entitled to love because we exist, not because we are infallible.

I am loved for who I am.

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Filed Under: Affirmation, Inspiration, Relationships Tagged With: affirmation, happiness, love, mistakes, perfectionism, self acceptance, self-talk

After Years of Marriage

May 22, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Boldly she wore pink; he, however, was timidly draped in brown.

She exploded with brightness while the wood-grained walls of the airport restaurant swallowed him whole. She came forward; he fell back.

A gentle, refined seasoning of white complimented her look: sweater, sneakers, and beautifully coiffed hair. From my mother’s day she came – and wore her age with proud, enthusiastic confidence.

His aura — sluggish and thick — was the perfect fit for his oversized waist and heavy movements. If not for her vibrancy to serve as a counterweight, he would have been invisible, absorbed by the background of the dimly lit restaurant.

Despite differences, their body language shared a history woven into long-term couples. They had seen much together; it was that bond that held them close.

He stared out the window, a leather-bound menu closed in front of him. Although the tarmac was busy, he was not watching the commotion; his eyes were fixed in space as he tried to remove himself from the discussion.

“What about your weight?” She asked. In her emphatic determination, there was no cruelty; simply the loving concern of a spouse who’s had this same discussion time and again. Whereby it would be wise for others not to venture there, wives have privilege; they walk where most wisely do not tread. “I don’t want to be a pest. It’s just the doctor said if you don’t watch what you eat, you’ll have another heart attack.”

“I’m tired of rabbit food,” he said, struggling to hold down his emotion. “I want something real. When I’m done eating, I want to know I had a meal.” He didn’t look at her; he was speaking to the window.

“I know,” she said, compassion in her voice. “Please…”

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Filed Under: Baby Boomers, Newspaper Column, Relationships Tagged With: bad habits, change, compassion, couples, heart attack, relationships

Video: Funny Lincoln Ad from Geico About Communication

May 9, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

No matter how hard we try to be honest, sometimes it just doesn’t work. A very funny ad from Geico featuring Abe Lincoln trying to live up to his nickname, “Honest Abe.” Enjoy.

Filed Under: humor, Relationships, Video Tagged With: abe lincoln, communication, geico, honest abe, honesty, humor, importance of honesty, relationship problems, relationships

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