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Guided Meditation: A Powerful Tool for Transformation

February 28, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

by guest author Johnathan Parker
relax meditation attitude calmMaking guided meditation part of your daily routine can help you find inner peace and tranquility, reduce stress and transform your life.

Physically, guided meditation can help you relax, increase the oxygen circulating to muscles and even increase your energy. Emotionally, you may find yourself better able to handle crises and stress after meditating. Mentally, the practice can unlock creativity and increase concentration. Through guided meditation, you can learn to let go so you can discover your true self.

1. For your first meditation session, clear your schedule for at least twenty minutes.

Schedule your meditation for a time that you will not be interrupted by other commitments. Go to a quiet place where you will not be disturbed or distracted. Being able to focus on your practice is essential to exploring your greater consciousness.

2. Find a comfortable position.

There is no need to twist yourself into an advanced yoga position when meditating. Most people prefer to sit in a chair or on a cushion. Although laying down may be most comfortable, you risk falling asleep while meditating. Wear loose clothing and dim the lights, light candles or pull the curtains down. The goal is to create a very comfortable space that is not distracting, so do whatever feels best to you.

3. There are two ways to begin your guided meditation.

First, you can begin by drawing deep breaths into your lungs. Inhale through your nose and exhale through your mouth. It may feel awkward at first, but your body will soon adjust to the breathing rhythm and you can focus as the air enters and leaves the body. The goal of this practice is to relax your body and mind before meditating.

The second option is to use visualization techniques to calm and relax both body and spirit. Picture yourself in the outdoors. You may be relaxing under a tree or dipping your feet into a rippling stream. Whatever landscape you choose, imagine the sights, sounds, smells and sensations you would experience there. Think of the fresh, cool air, the song of birds twittering above or the sweet aroma of blooming roses. As you add details to your mind’s picture, you will start to feel more and more relaxed. [Read more…]

Filed Under: Gratitude, Guest Author, Happiness, Highlighted Tagged With: guest author, guided meditation, happiness, meditation, meditation session, peace and tranquility, visualization techniques

Where are my Crayons?

February 15, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

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I was “row monitor” in second grade; sitting in the last seat making sure the students in my row behaved. On this day, all was quiet; no one messed with the law when Scott was around. My enforcement duties complete, I was able to turn my attention to the current “quiet time,” period that daily session where we did whatever we wanted, just so it was without sound. Priority one was schoolwork; so I pulled out my assignment list; decorated with pencil-drawn army men and a poorly drawn reproduction of Mighty Mouse. Nothing was pending so I re-filed it, still seeking something to occupy my time.

When our assignments were up to speed, we were allowed to retrieve our coloring books and engage our more artistic personae. Eagerly, I flipped pages, seeking the perfect image on which I could express by imaginative abilities. Alas, I had used all 64 colors on every image; every page had been filled; nothing remained

Sadly, I folded my hands on my desk, looked up at the ticking clock and waited. I had nothing to do, probably the last time in my life that has ever happened.

Fast-forward 50 years…

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Filed Under: family, Gratitude, Happiness, mental health, Newspaper Column, Relationships Tagged With: adult life, family, gratitude, happiness, priorities, quality of life, quiet time, time passing, top priorities

Audio: Where Are The Crayons Podcast

February 15, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

This is year 7, column #10.

The name of the column is called “Where are the Crayons?” and it’s all about taking time to slow down and pay attention to what’s really important. It’s 6:50

You can download the podcast by clicking on this link.

To read the column, follow this link.

Filed Under: Gratitude, Inspiration, mental health, Podcast Tagged With: family, happiness, Podcast, quality of life, relationships, taking time

Accepting Things for How They Are

February 9, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Self-Acceptance Affirmation

Accepting Situations as They Are

Life can be frustrating, there’s no two ways about it. When it is overwhelming and I feel like a hamster on a wheel, I am faced with only three choices:

  1. Quit the assignment, task, or job
  2. Change the assignment, task, or job to make it better for me
  3. Change my attitude to accept that I’ve made a choice to be here and I’m not willing (or able) to do anything else

 

Staying in a frustrating situation and ranting about it will not change it. It will also ruin my attitude, make me less productive, and possibly ruin my relationships (as well as possibly get me fired). Honor yourself for your willingness to persevere, take a deep breath, and be grateful for whatever you can.

My attitude is my own. Today I will choose to be accepting of my situation and be grateful for what I have.

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Filed Under: Affirmation, Gratitude, Happiness, mental health, Self Talk Tagged With: affirmation, affirmations, attitude, conflict, happiness, job, motivation, perfectionism, relationships, willingness

Forgiveness is More Powerful than Condemnation

January 16, 2012 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

To forgive is more powerful than to condemn.

Sometimes, we hang on to “bad feelings” because we think we are punishing someone for what he or she did. The reality is that they are unaware of it and it doesn’t affect them in the slightest. Actually, it holds us back and hurts us.

To forgive someone does not mean you condone the behaviors; it’s merely an emotional release of attachment to a negative feeling.

Who do you need to forgive today?

Read more about forgiveness here.

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Filed Under: Gratitude, Happiness, Inspiration, mental health, Motivational Monday Tagged With: attitude, bad feelings, conflict, emotional release, emotions, feelings, forgiveness, gratitude

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