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Getting Past Overwhelmed and Moving Forward

November 11, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Anti-Perfectionism Affirmation

Small Steps

When I am overwhelmed, I realize it’s because I’m trying to tackle too large of a project. I am intimidated by how much I have to do and my natural reaction is to shut down, which makes the problem worse. Today, I will find one small thing I can do on a project I’ve been delaying. I will not commit to any more than one step. Then, I will tackle it with all the skills and talents I have, realizing it’s better to move forward slowly than not at all.

No task is too large, when broken down into small steps.

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Filed Under: Affirmation, Inspiration, Overcoming Obstacles, Overcoming Perfectionsim Tagged With: affirmation, affirmations, perfectionism, small steps

Accepting Mistakes Will Happen

November 10, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Anti-Perfectionism Affirmation

Mistakes Happen

Today, I will accept the fact that the only way for mistakes to be avoided is to remain stagnant. Whereby that will prevent me from making errors, it will also prevent me from the possibility of enjoying my life, as well as growing. I will therefore move forward, fully aware of the fact that the unexpected can – and most likely will – happen, but that I can handle them when they do.

I am a fully functional being with the ability to handle set-backs and errors. Knowing that makes me stronger and happier.

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Filed Under: Affirmation, Inspiration, Overcoming Perfectionsim Tagged With: affirmation, happiness, perfectionism, productivity

Perfection vs Progress: Trying too Much Can Hold You Back as Much as Doing too Little

January 9, 2011 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

I received a message from a client today. I’m modifying it somewhat to protect privacy but it triggered some thoughts that I want to share.

I went to the gym today. Did 30 minutes on the elliptical, 20 minutes on the bike, and 15 minutes of weights. This afternoon, I signed up at the local community college for several PE classes.  I’m taking three classes: Yoga, weight lifting, and Pilates. At this point, doing an aerobics class isn’t permissible with my weight and back. However, if I can maintain a reasonable weight loss over the next 16 weeks, maybe an aerobics class might be a possibility. I will continue to go to my gym to get a cardio workout, of course. However, having these classes that I have to go to will be good motivation.

I wrote down everything I ate today for the 35th day in a row …  I’m done with feeling sorry for myself; that doesn’t help me. Just one step at a time is all I can do for right now, and I do think I’m making progress.

What I wrote back, not that she was asking:

I am impressed with all you’re doing; you’ve turned into a machine.

However, a question: Is it sustainable? No judgment is implied here, it’s just a sincere question. Make sure that the path you choose is one that you will continue, not one that will overwhelm you. If you can honestly keep  up with everything you’ve set out to do, by all means stick with it. If it’s going to consume you and you’ll give up due to the sheer volume of time and lifestyle change it will involve, it’s much better to choose a smaller set of activies and stay with them because you’ll do those longer and incorporate them into your life.

The problem…

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Filed Under: Asking for help, Diet, Failure, Overcoming Obstacles, Overcoming Perfectionsim, Scott's Rules, Self Talk, Success Tagged With: aerobics class, cardio workout, lifestyle change, motivation, perfectionism, weight loss, yoga

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