Note: We recently launched of a seminar series, “Five Things You Must Know To Make Your Life Better.” As part of that series, one of the things we went over were the “10 Commandments of Changing Habits.” This is one of those “commandments.”
Think Smaller for Better Results
Note: We recently launched of a seminar series, “Five Things You Must Know To Make Your Life Better.” As part of that series, one of the things we went over were the “10 Commandments of Changing Habits.” This is one of those “commandments.”
Thou shalt think smaller
You have made the process of changing too big and too complicated. You created your life in small, almost invisible steps. That is the way you will change it.
It sucks, but it’s true.
Don’t Expect Gurantees of Success
Note: We recently launched of a seminar series, “Five Things You Must Know To Make Your Life Better.” As part of that series, one of the things we went over were the “10 Commandments of Changing Habits.” This is one of those “commandments.”
Expect not guarantees of success.
Setting goals does not guarantee you will get to have the results you want.
However, NOT setting them does guarantee that you will stay where you are.
Too Bad We Need Support, huh?
Note: We recently launched of a seminar series, “Five Things You Must Know To Make Your Life Better.” Each week we’re taking a quick look at each of the five. This is the last one of the five.
#5: Get support
Can we be really honest?
If you could achieve your goals on your own, you would have already done so, right? As they say, “Nothing changes if nothing changes,” and if you continue to try and muscle your way through it, you’re actually holding yourself back.
It’s important to remember that each of us is at times a teacher and other times a student. In some areas we show others the way forward. In others, we must be guided.
There is no shame in learning – and there is great courage in asking for help.
Reach out; there will always be a hand ready when you need it. (You’ll repay the favor later.)
Close the Back Door
Note: We recently launched of a seminar series, “Five Things You Must Know To Make Your Life Better.” Each week we’re taking a quick look at each of the five.
#4: Close the Back Door.
Make it as easy as possible to move forward and as difficult as possible to stop. Clean your environment of triggers and replace it with support.
> If your goal is to lose weight, put your scale, measuring cups, and journal right in plain view. Get rid of “red light foods.” As soon as you lose a size, get rid of your old clothes. Keeping them “just in case…” usually turns out to be “it just so happened…”
> If you’re goal is to walk more, put your walking shoes right in front of the door. Wear your pedometer wherever you go. Better yet, get a second pair and keep them in the where you can see them. Look for opportunities to walk.
That’s a mistake.
One of the best ways to close the back door is to tell anyone who cares about you what you’re doing and how they can help. If you decide to stop moving forward, that’s your option, but after closing the back door, it becomes a very conscious decision and you have to “own it,” rather than believing you were a victim and it “just happened.”



