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You are Entitled to Change Your Mind

September 15, 2015 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Not everything works out as expected.

Whether those are goals or relationships, it’s okay to say goodbye when you’re no longer being served.

Simply because you decided to do something or because you wanted to be with someone, doesn’t mean you have to do it forever. If you have honestly done all you know how to do and the results are not what you need, you have the option of moving on. After all, you are a fully functioning adult.

If it’s time to say “farewell,” just do it consciously and with grace.

Filed Under: Change, Failure, Motivational Monday Tagged With: better relationships, farewell, moving forward, painful relationships, relationship problems

Is It Time to Say Goodbye?

February 4, 2013 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Is it time to say goodbye?

When it’s time to move on, from bad habits or painful relationships, these simple steps will make it easier:
  1. Accept the reality that what you had once is no longer working
  2. Get support
  3. Decide what you want to do that’s different
  4. Make a small step toward that new priority
  5. Praise yourself for changing
  6. Give thanks for what you had; it served you well for a long time. (If you’re saying farewell to a person, remember “compassion first” whenever thinking about them or bumping into them.)  

Goodbyes are certainly not as fun as “hellos” but they are necessary.

How we handle them is essential to a balanced and happy life.

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Filed Under: Asking for help, Motivational Monday, Relationships Tagged With: bad habits, compassion, farewell, happy life, painful relationships, priorities, priority, relationship, relationships

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