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Trusting the Universe

March 16, 2016 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Stars of a planet and galaxy in a free space

Stars of a planet and galaxy in a free space

First point: Albert Einstein – no shrinking Violet in the field of deep thought – said, “I think the most important question facing humanity is, ‘Is the universe a friendly place?’”

He put forth three alternatives:

Option One: the Universe is unfriendly. In that case, we use our technology, science and resources to be safe by creating bigger walls to keep out the unfriendliness and bigger weapons to destroy all that which is unfriendly. He went on to add, “We are getting to a place where technology is powerful enough that we may either completely isolate or destroy ourselves as well in this process.”

The second alternative is that the Universe is neither friendly nor unfriendly and that God is essentially “playing dice with the universe.” Should this be accurate, we are simply victims to the random toss of the dice and our lives have no real purpose or meaning.

That leaves one other choice: The Universe is a friendly place. In this instance, we will use our technology, science, and resources to create tools and models to understand it “because power and safety will come through understanding its workings and its motives.”

He made no final call except to say, “God does not play dice with the universe.”

Point two: Our current political dialog resembles more an elementary school playground fight than a contest for the most powerful office in land. There’s a gag-worthy political stench wafting through the discourse.

No one likes it (well, no one that’s rational at least). To change it, some respond by shouting, “We need to fight. It’s time to get angry.”

Don’t get me wrong; I am angry too. However, I’m inviting other to share in my campaign: “Compassion first. I’d rather be happy than right.”

It doesn’t mean I’m rolling over; this is not an “either-or” thing.

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Filed Under: Happiness, Inspiration, Newspaper Column Tagged With: albert einstein, choosing happiness, happiness, happy life, political discourse, politics, Rules of the Universe, spirituality, universe

Video: An Older Couple Gives Love Advice

December 19, 2015 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

An older couple discusses with a younger couple what has kept them together – and passes along some great advice.

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Filed Under: Baby Boomers, family, Happiness, Relationships, Video Tagged With: close relationships, good relationship, happy life, long term relationship, love, love and happiness, video, what matters, what really matters

Is It Time to Say Goodbye?

February 4, 2013 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Is it time to say goodbye?

When it’s time to move on, from bad habits or painful relationships, these simple steps will make it easier:
  1. Accept the reality that what you had once is no longer working
  2. Get support
  3. Decide what you want to do that’s different
  4. Make a small step toward that new priority
  5. Praise yourself for changing
  6. Give thanks for what you had; it served you well for a long time. (If you’re saying farewell to a person, remember “compassion first” whenever thinking about them or bumping into them.)  

Goodbyes are certainly not as fun as “hellos” but they are necessary.

How we handle them is essential to a balanced and happy life.

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Filed Under: Asking for help, Motivational Monday, Relationships Tagged With: bad habits, compassion, farewell, happy life, painful relationships, priorities, priority, relationship, relationships

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