No path is without obstacles.
As we face a new year and once again look forward to the potential that can await us, realize that no matter how well you plan, you will still face obstacles. But failing to plan creates even more obstacles.
Compassion First
Be compassionate – especially when you don’t want to.
People do hurtful things; it’s part of the “human condition.” Sometimes, when they do them, we’re on the receiving end.
However, viewing their actions through the lens of compassion can never hurt. It’s not always easy, but it will help heal the pain. (And it doesn’t mean you condone the action.)
Look at others, especially those who have wronged you, with compassion first.
After all, if it was YOU who hurt someone else, you would want others to treat you with compassion, wouldn’t you?
It’s OK to Ask for Praise
It’s OK to ask someone to praise you once in awhile.
No matter how old we are, we need to be recognized for what we do. It’s nice when it “just happens.” However, sometimes, it doesn’t. Unfortunately, when it doesn’t happen, many times we take that as a reason to get resentful. Not only does that ruin our attitude and make us feel bad, but it can damage the relationships that matter most to us.
Instead of feeling bad about not being recognized, point out what you did. Say how you feel about it. Ask to be recognized.
You did well. You deserve it. It’s fine to ask for it.
Just remember to praise and compliment others as often as you can too.
Prioritize! Prioritize! Prioritize!
Understand that – especially during this time of year – no one person can get it all done.
Some things will have to be left by the wayside.
Be patient with yourself for what you cannot get done.
Be patient with others for the same reason.
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Give Thanks for Your Past
Learn about your past before it’s too late.
It is a part of you and therefore will help shape your future.
As you gather with family and friends, remember this is a time to give thanks for what you have – including your history.
None of us would exist without so many before us. Find out who they are. Learn what they did.
Realize you are the culmination of all their hopes and dreams.