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Family History at the Holidays

December 8, 2010 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

At four years old, in 1930, with a mop of brown curly hair, bright hazel eyes, and light skin, Ruth Pinsker waited with her family on the side of a slickened Detroit avenue for a cable car they would never ride. Her family was comprised of Zlate and Shmuel “Sam” Pinsker; two immigrants who had recently migrated to the U.S. from Russia; as well as her younger sisters, Mildred; two years old, and the newborn Eleanor; still swaddled in her mother’s arms.

An attorney, driving while heavily under the influence, careened out of control down the boulevard toward Zlate and the kids. Although Sam would have been spared, he instead shoved them out of harm’s way, taking the full broadside in exchange and killed upon impact. Zlate was dragged under the auto’s wheels, breaking several bones. The children — short of emotional trauma — remained untouched.

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Filed Under: family, Holidays, Newspaper Column, Personal Tagged With: ancestors, children, immigration, ruth marcus, ruth pinsker, zlate pinsker, zlate zelby

No More Potato Salad; Please!

December 13, 2007 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Each dieter does it differently. Some eat a lot but look forward to exercise to burn it off. To me, looking forward to exercise is akin to eager anticipation of a root canal. Ain’t gonna happen.

My method of staying on track is by removing temptation; i.e., if it’s not here, I won’t eat it. Should you inspect my refrigerator, you would lay view to a vast amount of empty space. It’s a Spartan existence, but – for the most part – it works.

My mother used neither exercise nor my “minimalist” approach. Rather, she simply controlled her portions. Wow! What a novel concept: Eat well and eat the correct amount. Who would have thought?

Yet, therein lies a rub.

Whenever I visited, she would organize some form of get-together “in Scott’s honor.” Aunts and cousins would converge on Saturday afternoon to see how the Northern California component of the clan was surviving. Hugs. Conversation. Photographs. And of course, food. Lots and lots of food.

Across numerous tables would span a landscape of desserts, rolls, cheese, desserts, cold cuts, desserts, drinks, and – did I say – desserts. If ten people were expected, we had foodstuff for 50. “Food shortage” was not in her vocabulary.

For Mom, being encircled by so much food worked fine; she refused to give in to it. For me, it was difficult; I tried to elicit her support.

“Mom, can we not have so much to eat?”

“No, honey. People expect food at parties.”

“I know; but we have enough for a small nation. It’s too tempting.”

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Filed Under: family, humor, Newspaper Column, Traditions, Weight Loss Tagged With: aunts, cousins, foodstuff, hostess, irony, northern california, potato salad, ruth marcus, saturday afternoon, support mom

A Tribute to Ruth Marcus

February 13, 2006 by Scott "Q" Marcus Leave a Comment

Ruth Marcus lost 80 pounds at age 69.

Having fought the battle of weight since she was a teen, my mother knew more about fat grams and calories than nine nations of nutritionists. Indelibly imprinted in her gray matter was every food fact label on Earth. She could – and would – fill eight hours of a ten-hour road trip reciting from memory the fat and fiber content of countless foods – some I didn’t even know existed. (The other two hours were reserved for finding restaurants.)

With the kind of grief that makes it difficult to breathe, I began the process of emptying her car’s trunk after she died. I removed a self-made earthquake preparedness kit inhabiting a brown cardboard box. Neatly arranged were all the appropriate post-disaster supplies: batteries, bottled water, and canned food (of course). Buried under a brown tarp next to the butane lighter, was a plastic four-sided object. Slipping the item from its repository, I recognized it as a portable food scale for dedicated dieters when one is not near a kitchen.

A bittersweet smile found its way through my tears as I pictured the thought process that would have led her to include this particular article among the most important items one would need post-apocalypse. Did she foresee California leveled by a 10.4 shaker; survivors huddled under tattered blankets among the collapsed ruins? As they warmed themselves by campfires – hoards of starving, grimy individuals scrounging for food – one lucky survivor discovers a package of crumbled, tired saltines among the remains of a mini-mart. My mother, always the helpful dieter, would whip out her portable scale announcing, “If you’re worried about putting on a few pounds, I can measure out the correct portion size for you.”

Last week was the anniversary of her leaving this world – a hole in my life still unfilled. Yet, I can picture her in the afterlife, even now watching over me with ever-smiling eyes. As angels serve cakes, wines, and heavenly treats, I see her politely raising her hand, smiling warmly, and replying, “No thank you. I’m watching my weight.”

Filed Under: family, Newspaper Column, Tribute, Weight Loss Tagged With: afterlife, dieters, earthquake preparedness kit, ruth marcus

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