It is OK to Disagree

It is OK to disagree.

Sometimes, for our  health (mental or physical), or for the health of others, we actually must disagree with someone.

It’s not a problem to disagree, it’s HOW we disagree that matters.


A few quick suggestions:

  • Begin your statements with “I feel…” rather than “you are…”
  • Understand your intention is to state your view, not to put down the other person’s view
  • Listen to what he or she said
  • Realize the two of you might not agree no matter what

If we look at disagreements as an opportunity to enhance a relationship rather than a test of wills, the anxiety level will be lowered, the process will be smoother, and we just might get what we want.

For an article on how to have civil disagreements, follow this link.

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