In order to get beyond doubt and achieve life-changing objectives, it is imperative that I do it for ME, not because it’s a certain time of year, or my doctor said to, or because everyone thinks I should.
In order to get beyond doubt and achieve life-changing objectives, it is imperative that I do it for ME, not because it’s a certain time of year, or my doctor said to, or because everyone thinks I should.
The biggest problem we face is NOT that we cannot do it, but that we make the goal unrealistic.
Remember “Think 1st.”
Pick 1 thing (not several), make it Small enough that there’s no objection in your mind to doing it, make sure you do it Today.
Striving to be perfect is at best a barrier to actually getting “better,” and — in many cases — an excuse or a justification to avoid having to change one’s bad habits.
When you feel overwhelmed, ask yourself, “What’s ONE thing I can do RIGHT NOW to help me move forward?” Than do that but don’t wait.
The truth is that if we make a quick decision under pressure, the odds are that it will not be as good a decision as taking some time to think about. It’s better to make a correct decision in a little while instead of a poor one immediately.
By not setting small steps, you can convince yourself that you’re making progress when you might or might not be. In a way, it’s kind of an excuse for NOT doing the real work it takes. After all, if there are a series of small un-met goals, you have to be honest about what you’re not doing. If there are not any, the mind is capable of great amounts of denial.